We cannot normalize extorting women for their freedom from a dead marriage.
We cannot normalize men or women demanding posessions, money, rights, custody, the cancelling of restraining orders or abuse charges in exchange for divorce.
There are men counseling other men on how to abuse women in the name of Torah.
Convinced of their rights to abuse and withhold someone else's freedom, they literally counsel one another on how to abuse both their wives and the system.
Shoshanna Keats-Jaskoll on Get Extortion