Haredi leaders often enforce community modesty or related standards by punishing an entire family for the violations of one of the family members. Father has an unfiltered smartphone? Kick all of his children out of haredi schools. Mother drives a car without rabbinic permission or wears too fashionable (but still modest) clothing? Throw out her kids – or, at the very least, throw out the girls. But what if one female sibling wears a sleeve that is a bit too tight or a bit too short in the eyes of some rabbis, or wears a pair of what the rabbis or their wives deem to be too-stylish shoes? In Lakewood, New Jersey, that can get all of her sisters banned from every haredi girls school in the city. And some haredim aren't willing to take this rabbinic abuse anymore.