Aish.com has a piece by a woman, not BT, who dated her husband for a looooooooooooong time before marriage. She broke up with him at least twice, in a process that took 3 1/2 years. Now she's married almost ten years, very happy, lots of children, loves her husband and he loves her, etc. – in other words, a typical Aish piece. I post this because a friend insists this "fear of commitment crisis" is way overblown. I'm not so sure, having seen it first hand, from both sides. This is part of a larger discussion in which my friend is, as usual, strongly prevailing. Readers, is there a raging "commitment crisis"? Or is this whole commitment thing overblown?