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January 31, 2013

Satmar Rabbi Arrested On Mulitple Counts Of Child Sexual Abuse

Rabbi Yoel Malik (round)Yoel Malik, a 33-year-old rabbi from a prominent family of Satmar hasidim, was arrested and charged yesterday in Brooklyn with 28 counts of sexually abusing three teenage boys.

Rabbi Yoel Malik (round)
Rabbi Yoel Malik

Satmar Rabbi Arrested On Mulitple Counts Of Child Sexual Abuse
Shmarya Rosenberg • FailedMessiah.com

Yoel Malik, a 33-year-old rabbi from a prominent family of Satmar hasidim, was arrested and charged yesterday in Brooklyn with 28 counts of sexually abusing three teenage boys.

The arrest was reported on FailedMessiah.com yesterday afternoon.

Yoel Malik alleged brought two of the boys to motels for sexual encounters. A third boy was sexually assaulted in Malik’s car. The boys are all between the ages of 14-years-old to 16-years-old.

All of the assaults reportedly took place between March 2012 and last week, the AP reported.

An NYPD news release reportedly did not mention the school – Ohr HaMeir – or identify Malik as a rabbi.

The school is located in the Borough Park neighborhood of Brooklyn, and is described as a small, private yeshiva school for at-risk kids. Some reports claim the school has closed due to financial in-fighting in the family that controls it. Malik is reportedly part of that family.

Police were allegedly told about the victims by an anonymous caller to a rape hotline.

Update 1:23 PM CST – NBC News adds:

…Sources say some of the most serious allegations came from at least two victims who told police they had sex with Malik on several occasions at Brooklyn motels, inside his car and at a Brooklyn synagogue. One of the boys told police Malik would drive him and another boy home after school and went into the backseat with him on one occasion to have sex, law enforcement sources said.

Police have surveillance video from one Washington Avenue motel where Malik allegedly brought a boy for sex Jan. 18. Law enforcement sources say he rented the room for at least seven hours.

Police plan to extend their investigation to upstate Monticello, where some of the alleged sexual encounters were also reported to have taken place, law enforcement sources said.

Law enforcement sources say Malik admitted to detectives that he had encounters with the boys, but denied having sex with them or giving them alcohol and cigarettes. He also allegedly told detectives the victims made sexual advances toward him, but he refused.

Law enforcement sources also said Malik made statements to detectives indicating he was a victim of sexual abuse when he was 12..…

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thank you brave victim of Nechemya Weberman. others are following suit.

I think the reason that there are so many Charedi pedophiles is because there is no specific Halacha against such acts. It is against the law and common human decency, yes, but as Charedim are mindless automatons that disregard secular laws and Jewish and non-Jewish moral values, these are ignored.

1)@David what evidence do you have to prove that Charedi have more paedophiles than the general population? In the absence of evidence I could argue that it has the same prevalence as in the general population or less for that matter.
May I remind you that you are on a site specifically seeking out Jewish/Israeli/Charedi muck.

2) in what way is he a Rabbi? As you know the only rabbinical qualification there is, is called Smicha. Otherwise anyone and everyone is a Rabbi. (Even that polygamous "Rabbi" with his many wife's in the news of late.)

Of course there are Halachos dealing with hurting another individual or causing harm oreven just speaking in a negative tone to hurt someone is against Jewish Law. I know you're angry at people who are supposed to represent Torah values but that is not justified in created fabrications

Don't really want to deal with this shmutz before davening
Can someone explain what means Satmar Rabbi Arrested ?
Shmarya you are shaming the Shturmer .Gobalous would have been proud of you .its a shame you weren't alive then so you wouldnt be here now .You can always do Teshuva remember Hashem is a Rachim Vechanin

The overall prevalence is unknowable however the distribution of the problem is broad. The insularity and coerced secrecy of the various Haredi communities is what enables this to go on in the US, Israel, England, Australia - all over the world. Exactly the same as with the Catholic priesthood and for comparable reasons.

All it takes to unravel a piece of fabric is to get hold of one loose thread and keep pulling. We can hope that that proverbial thread has been grasped at long last and that the curtain the Haredim have hung to conceal their abuse from the world will unravel as a result - first as regards child abuse and later as re: abuse of government programs.

@SML as they are a group, this enables you to bunch together any international story about Charedim. This does not however tell you that it is more prevalent and any suggestion that it is, is speculation and maybe wishful thinking. It just helps you collect the stories on Google. Regarding the Church. I could differentiate between the 2. Clergy are sworn to celibacy, and their predicament can be compared to prison inmates where anything goes. Whereas Jews do not have this concept and only the people who are sick in the head become paedophiles. As in the general population.

These stories are now depressingly common. As a labor saving suggestion, why doesn't Shmarya create a template that he can fill in with the relevant details:

Chareidi/Chassidic Rabbi _____ was accused of molesting ___ boys/girls. The victim(s) claimed that they were ostracized and harassed by members of their community when s/he/they came forward. The renowned Rabbi_____ has issued a statement of support for the alleged perpetrator. The _______ community will be staging/staged a rally of support for the suspect.


The statement of support reads as follows:
"This is another outrageous example of antisemitism. The child/ren is/are unstable and known to be troublemaker(s). If anything s/he/they tried to seduce Rabbi _______. All parents should report such matters to competent rabbinic authorities who will then decide whether or not to contact police. Any person(s) who contact(s) police on his/her/their own is a moser, which is a very serious aveirah."

Of course there are Halachos dealing with hurting another individual or causing harm oreven just speaking in a negative tone to hurt someone is against Jewish Law. I know you're angry at people who are supposed to represent Torah values but that is not justified in created fabrications

Posted by: Nate | January 31, 2013 at 06:32 AM

Of course there are Halachos against harming people but people like Manis Friedman say no harm is involved. What message does this give to the automatons? And Charedim cannot understand anything that is not strictly literal. E.g. unless the Halacha says "you cannot fondle a child's private parts" (which it doesn't) they would not understand the concept.

Boy "king Sol", you'd have a lot more credibility for your idiotic comments if you'd learn to speak and write the English language.

The Anti-Semite "Goebbels/Sturmer" bit is really old and everyone's sick of hearing it.

Try to think of something more original such as "your worse than milosevic when he masacared the bosnian muslims" or "yuu antsimete! yur wurse than the hutus in rwanda!!!"

Mike2:

As I wrote, the prevalence is unknowable. Agreed. As for the fundamental reasons for the commission of abuse being different for Haredim and celibate clergy again perhaps so. However the parallel I cnoose to draw is between the concealment of abuse and protection of abusers by secretive insular societies: on one hand the Haredi communities and on the other the Catholic priesthood and hierarchy.

As for the whole business coming unraveled: check out the Times online today. Major article on the activities of the tznius squads with reference to their having been 'outed' during the Weberman trial. Kind of a cross-bred product of Saudi religious police and Mafia protection racket. Holy thugs? "Made" bochers? Gutfellas? The possibilities are endless...

R wisler i am so ashamed of you that you know how to spell Goebbels better then me .well one thing it didnt prevent my bank account from showing six figure income

Nechemya will have company. Soon there will be a Satmar gang in prison just like the blacks and hispanics and asians have.

R wisler i am so ashamed of you that you know how to spell Goebbels better then me .well one thing it didnt prevent my bank account from showing six figure income

Posted by: king Sol | January 31, 2013 at 07:38 AM

I trust that six-figure bank account (or income, it is not clear) was acquired honestly and not in the traditional Charedi manner. Well done if acquired in a legal manner in accordance with civil law and halacha and all associated moral codes.

investkate RABBI EZRA MAX from OHR NAVA/BNOS CHAYA also an unlisenced consilor 4 yung girls

Mike2-How convinient if you dont like what he did you try to dismiss him being called a rabbi,you cant face facts so you ignore it but you cant dictate what youre perception of reality to anyone,the last people on this earth to be a molester is for toireh learned or toireh observant people and if they commit such unspeakable act they should be punished severly.

Posted by: Mike2 | January 31, 2013 at 06:56 AM

Mike2, you overlook one fact that I can think of off hand. Orthodoxy has a prohibition against and a huge stigma attached to homosexuality. So the 10% of frum yidden who are gay, do take a vow of celibacy in a way. So a gay Rabbi who has been forced to repress these issues, may seek out vulnerable teens to fulfill his sexual needs. I am not saying saying that gay people are more prone to pedophilia. I am saying that there is a group of people who you leaving out of your analyses. Gay orthodox people with no outlet for their sexual desires. The issue of gay repression is obviously not only limited to orthodox Jews.

Mike2Are you a moron the hassidim are held to a heighter standard why are you comparing them to the general public,you think that others are stupid and you can write anything you want what a bal gava you are full of youreself.

Posted by: Yochanan Lavie | January 31, 2013 at 07:14 AM

Definitely, you have a point, and my I improve your idea, a spreadsheet will even be better you will need only 5 cells, prep age, victims gender, victims age, Chasidic dynasty, date.

Posted by: king Sol | January 31, 2013 at 07:38 AM

Wow I didn’t know that section 8, food-stamps, and other social programs give annually six figures. Please point me into the right direction where do I sign up. Do I have to have a bread, and rape a few kids before I apply, that might be a problem.

Joe Field .you need have bread first then you need to get an education then you can have a nice tie and work by Enterprise for $7.95 per hour

why u say satmar rabbi when in fact he is not

Let the pidyon shevuyim campaign begin!

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2270971/Michael-McBain-Ex-hockey-player-admits-sexually-assaulting-12-year-old-girl.html

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I went OTD many years ago. I am posting all this links to point out the real world, you guys have to look on both sides. Be realistic.

@Mike K

The day that hockey players announce to the rest of the world that they are a light unto the world - that they are more religious - and that they are the example for all mankind..........then your URL's will be relevant.

I went OTD many years ago. I am posting all this links to point out the real world, you guys have to look on both sides. Be realistic.

Posted by: Mike K. | January 31, 2013 at 09:55 AM

of course it happens all over, but what does not happen is the cover up, the vilifying of the accuser, the threats to the family. and the rallying around the accused and even the convicted.

and one cannot compare the cover up in the church to the cover up in the frum world.
in the church is was the church not the flock. in the frum world it is the whole flock that is involved

Mike K.-Youre going OTD DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO GO AGAINST COMMON SENSE,AS SEYMOUR WRITE HERE ITS THE FLOCK WHO ARE PERSECUTING TO MOLESTED.

Seymour:

You nailed it. Look at the thread on VIN and Gestetner's tweets. It is unbelievable.

Is it me or is it becoming an almost daily event that pedophiles from the community are in court? Two last week in NS, Malik this morning and another in NS this morning.
Surreal! Luke.

Posted by: king Sol | January 31, 2013 at 09:49 AM

Thank you for pointing out my typo, nevertheless, I don’t want to work at all,
I just want to be like you, get the 100K you got from the government. Education why? All the government benefits are available even if you never went to school. Besides I am on the path today, I didn’t shave yet, I am starting on my beard. Additionally, I am looking for a Mikva to dip in, none in my community. Hence when would I get my first check? Help me be like you!

R. Wisler: What does credibility have to do with writing proper English - idiot.

Gabals maybe outdated but David Duke is not - and he is David Duke/Stormfront

Pro Malik: Not a Rabbi? Explain this::

https://mobile.twitter.com/ZIDITCHOIV/status/15291126370

WHERE IS JESUS CHRIST? ONLY OUR LORD WILL BE ABLE TO SAVE SATMAR.Let us pray.Oh heavenly faher hear our prayer......etc etc....in jesus's name amen.As a member of the misnagim world my world view has been turned on its head.are there any non perverted satmar around.when the non jewish people read about our tribal affiliates we are tarnished by this Satmar perverts. What do the wives of these scummy people feel? do they accept this behaviour? do they cringe? are they ashamed? please go into this siode of the satmar perverts. where do the WOMEN STAND IN SALL THIS FILTH?????

As of now I we don't know the full story I will find out details about the yeshiva and its politics, and about these boys, if the story is as simply said then let him rot in jail.
I hate murderer and f....ing hate abusers but we must find out the truth first

From all the comments i see you all believe in guilty no matter what even if the verdict would be not guilty you guys think it was a mistake especially when its a Jew.

kobe-You sound like the person who never beleives the victims even after the molester is guilty,can you tell me which boy or girl made up such stories do you have just one person?also i dont know of any sane person who would want to through a public trial just out of sheere vindictiveness,as i wrote here many time at the age of 10 our respected over 60 year old moel and shohet fondeled me in the mikva under the water so no one saw it he did other insane things i wont go into i beleive every child who says he was molested , no child makes up such stories just to get back at his or her teacher no way .

YL - you are unmasked as a professional efficiency expert.

From all the comments i see you all believe in guilty no matter what even if the verdict would be not guilty you guys think it was a mistake especially when its a Jew.

Posted by: kobe | January 31, 2013 at 10:36 AM

This is the problem with abuse and our court/media system. A person is charged and portrayed as a guilty pervert. "IF" he is found to be not guilty the media does not convey that information to the public who they so gleefully reported his "guilt" (ok ALLEGED guilt).

As to the people who inquire they will say, OK he was found "not guilty" but that does not mean that he is innocent. His life is ruined and there is no way he can "prove" his innocence.

Here lies the problem of not keeping this form of investigation private until his guilt is proven, then by all means tell the world about it.

Before the Yeshiva Ohr Hameir closed down Moshe Pinter used to work there, as reported here in the summer.

2 weeks ago 3 bucherim approached him and told him that the Rosh Yeshiva Y.M. molested them.

He called the parents and informed them of the incidents, and recommended to send the kids for professional help, he also called the police to report the charges.

He then called the Rosh Yeshiva and told him that since he damaged these kids he should pay for their therapy, since the parents don't have the money to pay for a licensed therapist.

The boys were sent to licensed therapists for professional help to ensure they get the help in time and to minimize the damage that was done, the bills were paid by the Rosh Yeshiva Y.M.

The right thing was done, and there was no cover up.

Times are changing and the oilim is waking up, that we cant let molesters get away!

Eli --Fool what are you afraid, if he is found not guilty then he has nothing to fear all the guilt is transfered to the accuser it is he or she that has to live with it an innocent man does not have a guilty concions,are you that foolish as to but into that nonsense.

Eli, you raise what seem to be good points, but the way we "prove" guilt in this country is not by some rabbinical "court" conducted in secret, it's in open court, conducted in the full view of the public and press- with certain limitations, depending on victims age, venue of the alleged acts, etc.

If you are in fact living in the United States, and are an American Citizen, I would urge you to become familiar with the United States Constitution. The first ten amendments establish the basic rights of all persons on US soil, be they citizens, residents, or undocumented aliens.

The Constitution also establishes the law under which Hasidim (or Haredim, whatever you want to call yourself) have to live. I have the feeling that many hasidim- especially those who are convicted of crimes, or commit crimes- don't really believe that the laws of the United States apply to them- that they are governed by Torah Law, and that the laws of the country in which they live are merely creations of the goyim, and compliance with such is "not really required"...or something of that nature.

However, your post does raise a point (in an indirect fashion) that I was going to make anyway- and that's that it is extremely important we all remember something called "the presumption of innocence".

Simply because someone is arrested means nothing. (from a standpoint of what needs to be proven in court to secure a conviction). It merely means two things - one, a crime has been commmitted, and 2) there is probable cause to believe that the accused has committed the crime or crimes.

There is a TREMENDOUS (evidentiary) chasm between "probable cause" and "proof beyond a reasonable doubt"- and proof beyond a reasonable doubt is what the law requires for a conviction.

Eli does raise a good point when he comments that even if the person is found "not guilty", it does not mean he is in fact "innocent".

But as a (former) criminal defense lawyer, I was never required to prove that my clients were "innocent"- or to prove "SODDI"- "Some other dude did it".

On the cases that I did take to trial, all I had to do was raise "reasonable doubt' in the minds of the jury, and then, by law, I was entitled to an acquittal. And it does not necessarily mean that a person's life is ruined, either.

Again, Eli- and I'm assuming you are hasidic- you and your fellow hasids need to recognize that you live in a country governed by laws- and I don't mean the laws of a insular community where matters are handled- or not- by a rabbinical "court".

The sooner you folks realize that, and adapt to it, the easier your lives will be.

And maybe, just maybe, some of these sex offenders can get the help they need BEFORE they commit the crimes that get them arrested.

Posted by: The right thing was done | January 31, 2013 at 11:23 AM

So let me understand what your trying to say. Moshe Pinter who pled guilty to raping a boy but pled down the top felony charge to a misdemeanor child endangerment offense is now accusing his boss of same with 3 boys from the Yeshivah he worked at? We are supposed to believe that he was the one that the three boys confided in with their story. Does't get stranger than this.

Joe Field- "he who cast the first stone" you so squeaky clean financial? never had a run in with the law? hu?

Yochanan, that is as finely crafted as any of your song parodies. Well done.

Shimy Revenge what?????

3 bucherim came to the police and reported that they were molested by Yoel Malik, i wouldn't say that they all made it up and this is some kind of conspiracy made up by Pinter for revenge.

Yoily Malik is a sick pervert and a Molester! he forcefully had ... with more then one bucher in yeshiva, on the other hand Moshe Pinter never forced anyone, he was charged cuz the bucher was under 18.

In the summer it was reported that Moshe Pinter was working for Yehivas Ohr Hameir, and that "8 years ago", he had consensual ... with a 17 year old, but since Moishy was 21 years old, and the victim was 17 years old - Under 18, he was forced to go for therapy - This info can easily be verified on E-Courts Online.

He has since then went for professional help, and has changed drastically, i know him personally so i can vouch for that.

The only role Moishy had in Yeshiva was to bring food for the bucherim, he wasn't an authority figure to anyone there, he never touched a bucher, cuz if yes these bucherim would come forwards with their story.

What people need to understand is that by Malik there was force involved, and on top of that he was an authority figure that the parents entrusted with their children.

So my friend this story is all about what Malik did recently not what Pinter did 8 years ago !

Read for yourself:
http://nochemrosenberg.blogspot.com/2013/01/blog-post_31.html

You can always do Teshuva remember Hashem is a Rachim Vechanin

Posted by: king Sol | January 31, 2013 at 06:35 AM

You may want to tell that to your holy rebbaim. Oh, wait - that would require you to admit they're capable of committing aveirot, or even of merely being wrong.

Never mind.


Can someone please exlain to us ignorant ones, how some are claiming actually parroting Manis Friedman that halacha does not disallow sexual abuse. First of all, in some cases (as in this case, if true,) there may have been penetration which is definitely assur.
Second, in ALL cases, the abuser engages in the act in order to AROUSE HIMSELF and if he is lucky, to "spill seed." How in heavens name is it possible that there is not a "geder" for this issur that would include an issur to touch children in a sexual way? For goodness sakes, riding on a bus with women in the front is considered by these same people as assur because riding on public transport might sexually arouse all the men. And when the victim is a girl as they often are, HOW IS THAT NOT 'NEGIAH'"??? the same negiah that all orthodox teens are warned against as if it is as bad as "the act" itself? PLEASE explain!

Thanks Joe, Sarek, and Jeff.

Posted by: Deremes | January 31, 2013 at 11:53 AM

Sometime back didn’t you write that you decided to never again post on this blog, what gives.

I am really puzzled by your signifying the famous quote, “Let He Who Is Without Sin Cast The First Stone“, since when did you convert to Christianity, and start quoting the New Testament, John 8:7.

king Sol and pro malik have got to be the same person

Who is a Rabbi? When I was young, way back when, only the mora d'asra was called Rabbi. There was Rabbi Breuer, Rabbi Soloveitchik, Rabbi Ruderman, Rabbi Schneersohn etc. Today it seems every yeshivah bachur who reaches the age of 21 is automatically given the courtesy title 'rabbi'. This is why all these perverts, as well as the gay and lesbian Reform clergy, are called 'rabbi'. We have devalued and disgraced the title, much as Brooklyn has devalued 'yeshivah' with yeshivah kindergartens, yeshivah elementary schools etc.

Shimy tell what do you have with "Yoily Malik"?


Is he your brother, or your son, or your nephew, or a cousin, or even your grandson perhaps? Or is he related to your wife and her family in some way?

I ask because you have taken great pains to come up with this crazy conspiracy that somehow Moishy Pinter, made up a story and he got 4 bucherim to go to the police, with a story that Yoily Malik molested them, all because of revenge.

So he is probably either a relative of yours, or someone is paying you money to be his public relations "expert".

Yoily Malik is a sick pervert and a Molester! he forcefully raped more then one bucher in yeshiva, people need to understand that Yoily Malik was an authority figure that the parents entrusted with their children, and he used it to rob his victims innocence.

This story is all about what Malik did recently not what Pinter did 8 years ago !

Posted by: Robert J. Barron, Attorney-at-Law | January 31, 2013 at 11:47 AM

I guess the point in play is that considering the inability to turn back the clock on the reputation of the accused in the case IF he is found *not guilty* should the identity of the accused be guarded as one guards the identity of the victim? I do not question the judicial process just the role of the media while the process plays through.

You guys have really got to be more careful with the HTML tags.

Eli, you have a good name, and normally on that basis alone I would be inclined to agree. The media isn't interested in the truth: they want sensationalism and scandal and don't care about the human damage inflicted.

But we are not dealing with a normal situation. Take the Weberman case. If there were no press attention on the molester and his protectors, do you really think Hynes would have prosecuted? Or gone after those who intimidated the victim and her family?

This is not a normal world. Besides, it's not like the Satmars even read or care what is written about them outside their Amish-tinted bubble....

You guys have really got to be more careful with the HTML tags.
Posted by: Jeff | January 31, 2013 at 04:48 PM

Dude, it takes me half an hour just to get past the captcha, and you want us to master the html tags too....?

Jeff I will take that in consideration but till then ........

Dude, it takes me half an hour just to get past the captcha, and you want us to master the html tags too....?

Posted by: Eli, what me messiah? | January 31, 2013 at 05:39 PM

I hear you brother, the people who maintain "captcha" have been getting aggressive as of late. Its one thing when I am on my iPad where I can zoom in on the challenge and find the nuances and trickery that they are presenting; however on my PC it is getting annoying.

Eli, I'm only telling you this because you are a close personal friend and I trust your discretion. No one detested the Captcha more than moi. A few times I sent some of the more bizarro ones to Shmarya, shouting "J'accuse!"

I have had a complete change of mind. It has trained my eye as did those pictures where if you stare at it long enough you can see the picture within in it. And, best of all, I haven't become even a tiny bit closer to senility.

Some of it is the kind of optical illusion where you really need to hold it further away instead of closer. Sigh. This is why I eat lunch alone.

I guess the point in play is that considering the inability to turn back the clock on the reputation of the accused in the case IF he is found *not guilty* should the identity of the accused be guarded as one guards the identity of the victim?

Eli, you raise a very good and very sound point. Even if and when these things end in an acquittal, the life of the accused can be changed very drastically, and in a very negative fashion. Especially with a charge like this, a person's reputation can be ruined for years, if not forever.

Most newspapers and media outlets do not publish the name of the (alleged) victims of either sexual assault or sexual abuse, be they adults, or children- especially not when the (alleged) victims are children.

As a (former) criminal defense attorney, I don't know that I would have a problem with my clients' identity, especially with charges like this, not being disclosed. I suspect a number of criminal defense attorneys feel the same way.

However, the Sixth Amendment guarantees- among other things- the right to a speedy and "public" trial, where the crime was (allegedly) committed. I believe the Founding Fathers wanted trials public so the public could see justice being done, and not have to wonder about what goes on in "Secret" trials.

As a sidebar, that's what worries me so much about the hearings or trials or whatever you call them taking place at Guantanamo Bay- how does anyone know if justice is REALLY being served? Well, we don't. But that is for another day.

Again, you raise a very valid point.

The reason so many satmars do sexual attacks, is because they are too religious to be sexually active with their wives, so they take care of their sexual needs elsewhere.

The Toroh very clearly obligates a man to get married and fulfill all his wife's sexual needs & requirements.

If these satmars would cease to pretend to be holier than the Toroh, and be sexually active with their wife, these sexual attacks would soon cease.

This is exact same reason why catholic clergy have so many sexual violations, because they don't have a wife.

G-d knows better, and commands man to be married and sexually active with his wife, and then refrain from attacking anyone else.

Meanwhile, satmar stinks and is loathsome, and mr teitelbaum is defrocked.

Realistic, I don't know how to break this to you, but it's got nothing to do with a man having sexual relations- or not- with his wife.

I got a fairly significant exposure to pedophelia (sp?) early in my career as a (former) criminal defense lawyer.

A pedophile is sexually attracted to either young girls or boys; and/or becomes sexually stimulated by the thought of children having sex with each other, or him having sex with them. Ghastly and horrifying, but that is simply the way a pedophile is "wired"- the same way that a Homosexual man will not be able to get aroused by the thought of sex with a lovely woman, nor can a lesbian get excited about the idea of sex with a handsome man.

I'm not a scientist, I'm a lawyer, so I can't explain it scientifically, but it is just the way that someone is "wired" that causes them to have sex with either underage boys or girls- in this case, boys.

Being married - which is suspect is more for social reasons than anything else, in this particular case, will not make a pedophile's attraction to children go away.
I mean, if this alleged molester REALLY needed an outlet for sexual frustration, there are plenty of escorts who will take care of that for him for appropriate compensation.

I'm certainly not saying that I approve of prostitution, but it is an outlet for a number of married men who aren't getting what they need at home.

In this case- as difficult as it may be for you to accept- this is a man who is sexually attracted to young boys.

dh, I'm still laughing...yeah, I've found myself at times even trying to engage Captcha in discussion. "Seriously? I mean you SERIOUSLY expect any human being or robot to figure out what those merged i/n/r/m and those l/t/ letters are in a non-word? What language is this supposed to be from, Turkish? How many more of these before I beat you? what say we just go see a movie instead? oh, look, they posted something really stupid on CHinfo...."

When you suggest extramarital outlets for married men you present a slippery slope. Soliciting prostitutes was decried by Yirmiya in Eicha as a cause of the hurban. Wife swapping destroys communities.(Shmarya's next blog). Pedophiles may have large families, may evince hatred of gays and gay agenda.

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